Welcome to the blog, Bethany. I’m so excited to have you join us! Congrats on your recent release, Strains of Silence. Let’s talk about your story.
Tell us how you came up with the idea for Strains of Silence.
Itβs loosely (VERY loosely) based on a rough series of my own relationships. I never got into as dangerous a situation as Kasia, but I certainly put up with a lot and made excuse after excuse for guys who just werenβt marriage material. And I was also stalked in both high school and college. Roll all those experiences up into one real creep, and youβve got Blake Hamilton. But actually writing the story? I canβt even tell you how often I wished I could go back and talk some sense and some strength into myself. Tell young me I was worth so much more than I believed. That a few mistakes and a lot of poor choices didnβt have to equal ruin. I knew, too, that I wasnβt the only woman who felt that way. And some women I knew had never learned what I did that made me able to stand again, to believe in my own worth. So I wrote it for them.
Wow. I love hearing how your life lessons influenced the story! Can you share a favorite quote from your book?
Thereβs an analogy that I love. Kasia has just revealed somethingβa horrific memory sheβd stuffed down into the darknessβand she tells Zan that she wishes sheβd never remembered it. Things were easier when she was numb. And Zan talks about what would happen to an athlete or a dancer if they broke a bone and let it heal without resetting it. The dancer would walk with a limp for the rest of her life. And then thereβs this bit of conversation.
Β Β βI think your heart works the same way. You can shut out the memories and keep going, but youβll have to live with a heart thatβs healed wrong.β
Β Β Β βI donβt know. Iβm sort of a fan of numb at the moment.β
Β Β Β βKasia, youβd be able to dance again.β
Β Β Β For a moment, hope filled her eyes and then flickered out just as quickly. βWhat if Iβm too afraid of the pain?β
Β Β Β He needed her to see how serious he was. He cupped her face in his hands, ducked enough to gaze evenly into her eyes. βYou deserve to dance. And if youβll let me, Iβll help you.β
Β Β Β Jayce might kill him, but he meant it.
Β Β Β Besides, they werenβt going in such different directions anymore.
Β Β Β He tucked a curl behind her ear. βIβm not going anywhere. If you wake up and need to unload at three in the morning, Iβll listen. If you get angry, Iβll take whatever punches you need to throw. When youβre finally ready to cry, Iβll hold you if youβll let me. And when youβre ready to dance, Iβll be there.β
What do you hope readers will take away from your novel?
I hope theyβll put the book down knowing, believing, that they are worthy of love. Too often, we believe what the world tells us about ourselves. We find our identity in othersβ opinions and begin to live up to thoseβor to lower the bar and live down to the expectations of the hope-stealers. But there is hope, genuine hope. We can replace the lies the world tells us with the Truth, and we can find healing and purpose, wholeness and joy in life. When we know that we were made for more than just surviving, just existing, we can truly find the courage to fight for joy.
Beautiful. Such a great message. Thanks for sharing that.
What has been the most memorable book you’ve read so far this year?
It wasnβt a novel, actually. It was absolutely Present Over Perfect by Shauna Niequist. Before I clocked my evening hours editing and writing, I spent the day homeschooling my kids and teaching two English classes. It was getting to the point that I never ever had time to relax. My younger kids didnβt even know how fun I could be. We didnβt read or play or laugh together like I had with my older kids. They knew me as teacher, cook, and editor/author. And I had a huge problem with that. I love books and writing, but not more than my family. My heart ached to lighten my load, and I missed my husband too. His schedule wasnβt any better. The message of Shaunaβs book gave me the courage to say out loud that I couldnβt keep going. That my lifestyle simply wasnβt sustainable. We both agreed we needed to make some real changes for our spiritual, emotional, and physical healthβfor the health of our whole family. Rob had already been praying about his own calling, and my determination to make changes no matter how drastic gave him the nudge he needed to jump. So we did. Together. And weβre all enjoying the changes.
I’ve heard so many wonderful things about that book. I must check it out soon! π
What do you enjoy most about being an editor?
I love working with authors who have hit a plateau, because it gives me a chance to help them love their storiesβand writingβagain. Sometimes people need change, and sometimes they just need an infusion of joy as they persevere. I work with the authors and not just the manuscripts, and I make the process fun. Hiring an editor doesnβt have to be a negative experience. It shouldnβt be. Invigoration. Thatβs what I love.
Is there anything else you’d like to add? Any upcoming projects you can tell us about?
Iβm halfway through the sequel of Strains of Silence (working title: Chaos and Chemistry), and I have a third book in the series outlined.
And Iβve just finished another novelβvastly, vastly different. Itβs a fairytale/myth mash-up. I wrote is as a sort of experiment, born out of what-if dinner table conversations with my crew. The writing process was super challenging, but a lot of fun too.
GIVEAWAY!!
Bethany has graciously offered to give away a copy of Strains of Silence. Enter below and it could be YOU!
Thanks for entering!Β Contest ends August 15, 2017.Β The winner will be notified by email. Happy Reading, everybody!
Connor O’Shea braced his boots against the auction block and glared at the crowd gathered on the landing. The Promis of Breeze Hill by Pam Hillman
Looking forward to reading Strains of Silence. Thank you for sharing the interview.
Fun first sentence! Thanks for sharing and visiting, Anne!
Sounds like a beautiful book–would love to read this!
Good luck in the giveaway, Barb!
Sounds like a winner!
Thanks for stopping by, Melanie. π
Sounds like an interesting story!!
Hope you get to read it soon, Brooke.
She’s not just an amazing author, she’s a loving and wonderful person! <3
I’m so happy she could join us… and you too, Terri!
When the Holy Spirit opened my eyes to believe,it was like being run over by a train. Book is Women of the Word by Jen Wilken
Wow! Beautiful first sentence. Thanks for sharing, Kathleen.
A solitary girl in a gray wool coat and red knit cap flitted through the snow, searching for a glimmer of gold.
Sensible Shoes by Sharon Garlough Brown
What a descriptive beginning. Love it! Thanks for visiting, Sonnetta. π
Wow! This sounds like a beautiful story. The author is new to me, and I would love to win a copy of her book. Thanks for the chance. π Blessings on you!
So happy to introduce her to you, Evangeline. Hope you get to read her book soon!
If it could ever be said that America had a “royal family”,it would be the Kennedys of Massachusetts. This is from the book”After Camelot”:1968 to 2012.
Marilyn
Interesting! I haven’t heard of that book before. Thanks for stopping by, Marilyn.
“Nick Stafford stared at the half-buried, round-roofed dwelling and realized he couldn’t go through with the elementary school principal’s edict.” from Home on the Range by Ruth Logan Herne, the second book in the Double S Ranch series.
Ohhhh, I like it. I so want to read more. π Thanks for sharing, Pam.
“Gloria Richards didn’t have time to cry anymore.” From Daredevils by Anne Greene
Intriguing! So nice to see you stop by, Joan!
“HUH,” Sherry said, disappointment thick in her voice. I thought Pinecraft would look different.”
From An Amish Summer, A Reunion in Pinecraft by Shelly Shepard Gray.
Thank You for giveaway , Strains of Silence looks like an excellent story.
Fun! Thanks for sharing with us, Jackie. Good luck in the drawing.
I just finished Peace in the Valley by Ruth Logan Herne.
“For once in his life, Trey Walker Stafford had aced his two older brothers.”
Love it! I’ll have to look that one up, Winnie. Thanks!